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My Friend Dahmer

My Friend Dahmer

  • Status: Released
  • 03-11-2017
  • Runtime: 107 min
  • Score: 6.5
  • Vote count: 635

Jeffrey Dahmer struggles with a difficult family life as a young boy. During his teenage years he slowly transforms, edging closer to the serial killer he was to become.

Ross Lynch

Jeffrey Dahmer

Alex Wolff

John 'Derf' Backderf

Anne Heche

Joyce Dahmer

Dallas Roberts

Lionel Dahmer

Liam Koeth

Dave Dahmer

Nancy Telzerow

Carol Backderf

Tommy Nelson

Neil

Harrison Holzer

Mike

Brigid Naughton

Melody

Cameron McKendry

Moose

Katie Stottlemire

Penny

Brady M.K. Dunn

Bossy

Jake Ingrassia

Gooch

Michael Ryan Boehm

Shorty

Ben Zgorecki

Bully Jock

Dontez James

Charlie Smith

Miles Robbins

Lloyd Figg

Gabriela Novogratz

Lisa Watkins

Jack DeVillers

Oliver Zlatka

Dave Sorboro

Steven Hicks

Joey Prines

Snarky Slacker

Kris Smith

Ms Bowles

Adam Kroloff

Mr Burlman

Christopher Mele

Mr Fedele

Joey Vee

Mr Hicks

Tom Lepera

Mr Lapolla

Vincent Kartheiser

Dr Matthews

Maryanne Nagel

Mrs Woodard

Sydney Meyer

Bridget

Lauren Rhodes

Aide

Tom Luce

Vice President Walter Mondale

Carmen Gangale

Grocery Store Manager

Shane Patrick O'Neill

Restaurant Manager

Joe Fishel

Market Shopper

Andrew Gorell

English Teacher

Susan Bennett

Musical Director

Nicholas Hulstine

Prom Photographer

Zachary Davis Brown

Freshman Boy

Lily Kozub

Freshman Girl

Clayton Frank

Bus Student 1 (uncredited)

Lou Consolo

Mall Shopper (uncredited)

Stephen Campbell

**_Tonally flawless, but narratively weak_** > _The killing was just a means to an end. That was the least satisfactory part. I didn't enjoy doing that. That's why I tried to create living zombies with uric acid and the drill, but it never worked. No, the killing wasn't the objective. I just wanted to have the person under my complete control, to do with as I wanted. It's not easy to say that, but that's what the motive was._ - Jeffrey Dahmer; speaking to Stone Phillips; _Dateline NBC_ (March 8, 1994) Taking place over the course of Jeffrey Dahmer's last year in high school, and culminating with the fateful meeting between Dahmer (Ross Lynch) and Steven Hicks (Dave Sorboro), writer/director Marc Meyers's _My Friend Dahmer_ is based on the 2012 graphic novel by Derf Backderf (played in the film by Alex Wolff), who attended the same school as Dahmer, and formed a pseudo-friendship with him. The film is tonally brilliant, coming across like _The Breakfast Club_ (1985) directed by David Fincher, perfectly capturing 80s tackiness. Narratively, however, it's extremely plodding, and could easily have been trimmed by 20 minutes. It's also difficult to see what Meyers was trying to achieve; other than a couple of brief moments, we're never given any real access to Dahmer's interiority, so he remains an enigma, always at arm's length (which could have been the point). But is Meyers asking us to feel sympathy for Dahmer because he had a difficult adolescence, came from a broken home, couldn't make friends in school; to quote that great line from Michael Mann's _Manhunter_ (1986), > _my heart bleeds for him, as a child. Someone took a kid and manufactured a monster. At the same time, as an adult, he's irredeemable. He butchers whole families to pursue trivial fantasies. As an adult, someone should blow the sick fuck out of his socks._ Or is this simply a character study (if we didn't know it was about Dahmer, it could be any number of examinations of high school awkwardness)? The lack of clarity regarding the film's theme is compounded by the scenes where it looks as if Dahmer is about to murder someone, only to stop at the last second. This is an especially strange way to generate tension, insofar as we already know his first murder was Hicks. Also, if the film is actually trying to say something of societal worth regarding serial killers, directionless youth, nature vs. nurture etc, trying to draw an audience into the narrative with the prospect of murder probably isn't the way to go about it. The film also fails to really get into the issues of Dahmer's sexuality, and his confusion and frustration about being gay. It's worth a look, and Lynch's performance is quite something, but if you're already familiar with Dahmer's story, you won't find much insight here.